4 Steps to Master Lifestyle Gamification: Play Your Life Like a Pro
<center> <object classid="clsid:d27cdb6e-ae6d-11cf-96b8-444553540000" width="425" height="344" codebase="http://download.macromedia.com/pub/shockwave/cabs/flash/swflash.cab#version=6,0,40,0"><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true" /><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always" /><param name="src" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/k2OcubwPol4&hl=en&fs=1" /><embed type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="425" height="344" src="http://www.youtube.com/v/k2OcubwPol4&hl=en&fs=1" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true"/></object> </center> The <a href="https://yukaichou.com/my-epiphany-from-diablo-ii-that-started-my-entrepreneurial-life/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">FD Lifestyle</a> is simply treating your life as if it was a game, and you are a hardcore player who is trying to be the best at the game. Hardcore players spend hours everyday trying to improve their abilities and beat the game. When they are not playing, they are reading strategy guides, going to online forums,and constantly thinking about how to make their game stronger. Most people agree that the FD Lifestyle philosophy sounds appealing, but they have no idea where to start. This post will explain to you how to begin your quest of greatness and fulfillment. Each step isn't very easy (especially when it deals with understanding yourself better), but nor is playing a game the first time eh? :) ) First and foremost, in anything, you need to figure out what kind of game you are playing. What are your life goals, what are you passionate about, and what do you want to achieve? Are you playing a game where you try to make an impact on this world by utilizing your skills and resources around you to solve world problems? Are you playing a game on reaching the top of your organization in the shortest amount of time, try to accumulate as much money(points) as possible, or try to pick up as many girls as you can? You have to think very carefully on what you care about and what accomplishments would make your life meaningful. Choose a game that you will feel worth it when at the end of the day (or your life), you will feel good because you accomplished meaningful things and have beaten the game with a high score. Once you have identified the game you are going to play, you need to figure out what role you will play and what are the skill sets or resources you must have. Lets take my Game of trying to make as big of an impact in this world as possible as an example. Once I have determined that my end goal is impact, I need to figure out what is the best way to get to that goal. That's when you look at your "initial stats." What are you innately better than the people you grew up with? Were you always quick with math? Were you the sociable leader? Were you more creative than your peers? I turn out to be better at creating connections in my head, establishing deep and meaningful relationships fast, and analytically creating systems that make things better. I am also extremely emotionally stable and can stand high stress. Finding your initial stats is actually something extremely difficult to do, but you can only do it through a lot of self-exploration and TONS of trying out new challenges. Lets just say there's no meter to tell you your stats, and you have to kill enough monsters and get hit enough times to figure out the actual numbers. Being a NPC in town doesn't help. After you have determined your Initial Stats, you then need to think of the occupation you want to be in. Don't just pick something your stats point to, find something that you love doing as a lifestyle. I personally hate being a sorcerer where most of the time I'm hiding, hitting, and running, even though I could potentially become very strong with it. Sometimes the easy road is not the most fulfilling. <strong>When you think about your occupation, deciding how you can use your initial stats to beat your game (the ultimate goal) in a way you enjoy doing is key.</strong> OK, this step takes ages, and most people never do it before their midlife crisis. But that's why so many young people don't know what they do, and so many older folks hate their jobs – they don't spend enough time on this. The first build of a character usually turns out crappy unless there's guidance. Back to my own example, I feel that since I am good at leading and dealing with people, have a strong balance between random creativity and systematic analysis, and can stand a lot of stress and uncertainty, my occupation will be an Entrepreneur. I can create new systems to improve the world in a creative and interpersonal manner, while withstanding the stress of things-gone-wrong that a business faces all the time. My systems creation talent and my passion to help others grow also suggest a side specialization of a Consultant or Coach. Once you have decided on the Game you are playing and your Occupation, its time to plan out a "build." If you have done the past few steps correctly, this shouldn't be too hard. Knowing who you are and where you want to be is far harder than how you can get there. When you envision yourself accomplishing your goals in the future, what are the skill sets you need? Whatever the skill sets are, make sure you focus on those, and don't spread yourself thin. Sure, you can have unrelated skills as long as you can see how they can work together (for instance, Bilingual in Chinese and English, Leadership, Finance, and Sustainability Knowledge can work out well if you plan to become a financial leader of a sustainability firm that will spread to Asia). Putting 2 skill points in sword technique, 2 points in spear technique and 2 points in axe technique does not make a strong character when you can only yield one weapon at one time. After you know your occupation, stats and planned skill points, the only left is to build alliance and conquer smaller quests that give you experience to level up and beat the game. So holistically, to play the FD Lifestyle game well, you need to have good <strong>Occupation, Stats, Skills, Alliance, and Quests.</strong> Each of these things I will have separate blog posts to elaborate more and get you to live a fullfilling and successful life. My goal as a powercoach is to help you level up and become the strongest player on your server. I hope you find a successful and fulfilling life through the FD Lifestyle. If you have any questions or need some guidance, feel free to comment or just send me an email at yukai@fdvirtualworld.com
Every RPG starts the same way — you create a character, pick a class, and step into a world full of quests. What if the most complex, rewarding game you’ll ever play is the one you’re already in?
Lifestyle Gamification means treating your real life as the ultimate game — and playing it like a hardcore gamer who’s determined to win. This post breaks down exactly how to start.
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Author Credibility: Yu-kai Chou
Yu-kai Chou created the Octalysis Framework after studying gamification since 2003 — years before the term entered mainstream vocabulary. As a Human-Systems Architect & Behavioral Designer, his framework has been applied by LEGO, Microsoft, Porsche, Coca-Cola, Salesforce, and MrBeast, impacting over 1.5 Billion Users.
Chou has taught the Octalysis methodology at Harvard, Stanford, Yale, Tesla, Google, BCG, and IDEO.
His work has been cited by Harvard, Stanford, MIT, Forbes, Wall Street Journal, Wired, US Department of Energy, NIST, NSF, NCBI, US Department of Education, ClinicalTrials.gov, and Google Scholar — with 3,700+ more academic publications. Explore his books here.
What Is Lifestyle Gamification?
Lifestyle Gamification is the practice of applying game design thinking to your everyday life so that you approach goals, habits, and personal growth with the same intentionality and drive that a hardcore gamer brings to their favorite RPG.
Hardcore gamers spend hours every day trying to improve their abilities and beat the game. When they’re not playing, they’re reading strategy guides, visiting online forums, and constantly thinking about how to make their character stronger.
What if you brought that same intensity to your career, health, relationships, and personal development?
Most people agree the philosophy sounds appealing — play your way to success. But they have no idea where to start.
This post lays out the four steps to begin your quest. Each one requires real effort (especially the parts about understanding yourself), but that’s no different from picking up a new game for the first time.
Step 1: Determine the Game You Are Playing
First and foremost, you need to figure out what kind of game you’re playing.
What are your life goals? What are you passionate about? What do you want to achieve?
Are you playing a game where you try to make a massive impact on the world by solving real problems with your skills? Are you trying to reach the top of your organization in the shortest time possible? Accumulating wealth? Building deep relationships?
In the Octalysis Framework, this maps directly to Core Drive 1: Epic Meaning & Calling — the drive that motivates us because we believe we’re doing something greater than ourselves.
You have to think carefully about what accomplishments would make your life meaningful. Choose a game where, at the end of the day (or your life), you’d feel good because you beat it with a high score that actually matters to you.
Step 2: Determine Your Role by Understanding Your Stats and Style
Once you’ve identified the game, you need to figure out what role you’ll play and what skill sets you need.
Take my game — trying to make as big an impact in this world as possible — as an example. Once I determined that my end goal is impact, I needed to figure out the best path to get there.
That’s when you look at your “initial stats.”
What are you innately better at than the people you grew up with? Were you always quicker at math? Were you the sociable leader? Were you more creative than your peers?
My stats: I’m better at creating creative connections in my head, establishing deep and meaningful relationships quickly, and discovering people’s potential and mobilizing them. I’m also relatively emotionally stable and can withstand high stress.
Finding your initial stats is extremely difficult. You can only discover them through extensive self-exploration and trying tons of new challenges.
There’s no meter to tell you your stats. You have to kill enough monsters or get hit enough times to figure out the actual numbers. Being an NPC in town doesn’t help.
After you’ve determined your initial stats, think about the occupation you want. Don’t just pick something your stats point to — find something you love doing as a lifestyle.
In games, I personally hate being a sorcerer where most of the time I’m hiding, hitting, and running, even though I could potentially become strong with it. Sometimes the easy road is not the most fulfilling.
When choosing your occupation, deciding how to use your initial stats to beat your game in a way you enjoy is key.
This step takes ages. Most people never complete it before their midlife crisis. That’s why so many young people feel lost and so many older people hate their jobs — they didn’t invest the time.
The first “build” of a character usually turns out crappy unless there’s guidance.
Back to my own example: since I’m good at leading and dealing with people, have a strong balance between random creativity and systematic analysis, and can withstand a lot of stress and uncertainty, my occupation is Entrepreneur.
I can create new systems to improve the world in a creative and interpersonal manner, while withstanding the stress of things-gone-wrong that businesses face constantly.
My systems-creation talent and passion to help others grow also suggest a side specialization as a Consultant or Coach.
Step 3: Plan Out a Character Skills Growth Road Map
Once you’ve decided on the Game and your Occupation, it’s time to plan out a “build.”
If you’ve done the last few steps correctly, this shouldn’t be too hard. Knowing who you are and where you want to be is far harder than knowing how to get there.
When you envision yourself accomplishing your goals, what skill sets do you need?
Whatever they are, focus on those. Don’t spread yourself too thin.
You can have unrelated skills as long as they work together. For instance, being bilingual in Chinese and English, having leadership and finance skills, and understanding sustainability could work brilliantly if you plan to become a financial leader of a sustainability firm expanding to Asia.
Putting 2 skill points in sword technique, 2 points in spear technique, and 2 points in axe technique does not make a strong character when you can only wield one weapon at a time.
This connects to Core Drive 2: Development & Accomplishment in the Octalysis Framework — the internal drive to make progress, develop skills, and eventually master something. Your skill road map gives you that sense of leveling up.
Step 4: Find Teammates and Conquer Quests Together
After you know your occupation, stats, and planned skill points, the only thing left is to build alliances and conquer smaller quests that give you experience to level up.
No game is meant to be played solo forever. The best MMOs thrive because players form guilds, share strategies, and take on raids together. Your life game works the same way — finding the right teammates multiplies your effectiveness.
This draws on Core Drive 5: Social Influence & Relatedness — the drive that motivates us through mentorship, social acceptance, companionship, and even competition.
The 5 Pillars of Lifestyle Gamification
Putting it all together, to gamify your life well, you need strong:
- Occupation — Your class/role in the game of life
- Stats — Your innate strengths and abilities
- Skills — The abilities you deliberately develop
- Alliance — Your team, mentors, and support network
- Quests — The challenges you take on to gain experience and level up
My goal as a Gamification Coach is to help you level up and become the strongest player on your server.
Where to Go from Here
This post gives you the starting framework. For a deeper understanding of the psychological drives behind why game mechanics work on human motivation, explore the Octalysis Framework — the behavioral design model used by LEGO, Microsoft, Google, and Tesla.
If you want to see how gamification principles apply to real-world products and systems, check out the Top 10 Gamification Examples that shaped how the world thinks about motivation.
And if you’re ready to embrace failure as part of the process, remember: every hardcore gamer has died hundreds of times before beating the final boss.
